WHAT’S WRONG WITH PHONE and CYBER SEX?

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Today, I want to share my thoughts on WHAT’S WRONG WITH PHONE and CYBER SEX

Almost every teenager knows about phone-sex and cyber-sex and also sexting, but may not just know them by their technical names. Adults too, and also the married know about phone-sex and cyber-sex as they also get cut-up in the acts. I don’t intend to say much, so I suggest you read the links I’ll provide to better your understanding.

What’s phone-sex and cyber-sex?

They (phone-sex and cyber-sex) are the parents of sexting and the school teacher of masturbation. They are also the nanny and Danny of porn and they have relationship with rape and gayism too.

Phone-sex is simply sex talks, chats and activities over a tele or mobile phone. Cyber-sex is simply sex gist and activities over the internet (web-cam things). These are the simplest I could give I suppose. They are sex related gist between two friends who are romantically or sexually attracted and connected to each of them.

What then is wrong with phone sex and cyber-sex?
Many things my friend, many things.

Both phone-sex and cyber-sex fuel lust, making the recipient crave for what isn’t rightly theirs. It fuels unhealthy sexual appetites for the person giving it and the person receiving it because they turn partners on sexually and one or both of them may then (usually as the case may be) use masturbation as a tranquilizer.

Phone-sex and cyber-sex fuel acquaintance rape as the lady may not want to have sex in reality with the dude. Partners may also have to use porn to tranquilize the effect of the sex talk, leading to masturbation.

Sex talk on phone or on cyber space increases the sexual vulnerability of the partners to themselves and to others. They create confused sexual appetite as sex talk is far different from sex action, thereby, creating unrealistic, insatiable sexual desires in the partners.

Besides, phone-sex and cyber-sex are addictive, compulsive, secret behavior which introduces sexting and other vices. It is immoral, ungodly, unclean and fornication. Check out these relevant scriptures for yourself: 2Timothy 2:22, Colossians 4:6, 3:17, 8, Proverbs 4:24, Psalm 1:1, Proverbs 1:10.

Why arouse a person through night calls, texts, chats or emails when you know you can’t/won’t fulfill them?

Read the listed articles below to get a better understanding of my thoughts on this.

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It’s your relationship with Jesus that makes your other relationship(s) sweet. YOU ROCK. Good night.

My name is Earl, and I am Alright.
My job is to help young people master their sexuality, and I minister Sexual Healing through Spoken Words. I am a general in God’s army and may command is to ensure sexual purity and healing throughout God’s kingdom.

See:
WHAT’S WRONG WITH ONLINE DATING?

WHAT’S WRONG WITH SEXTING?

MASTERING SEXUALITY

WHAT’S WRONG WITH MASTURBATING?

CORRECTING CONFUSED SEXUAL APPETITE

WHAT’S WRONG WITH LUST?

HOW SAFE ARE YOU FROM INTERNET AFFAIRS?

HOW TO GET OVER CRUSH and INFATUATION

CAN CHRISTIAN SINGLES ROMANCE?

3 SURE WAYS TO SAY NO TO SEXUAL TEMPTATION

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