The meaning of cheating is just expanding every day to meet and match the definition Jesus gave a long time ago.

Once upon a time, cheating was only when sex was involved. Then kissing and touching became part of it. Flirting and emotional affairs later joined.

Meanwhile, more than 2000 years ago, Jesus said that once you even think about it, gbam, you are guilty as charged.

Cheating becomes any and everything that violates your vows, makes your partner feel insecure and romantically threatened, and also violates God’s principles of moral, sexual and emotional chastity and righteousness.

Who defines what is cheating?

Your partner, your conscience and your God.

So, seeing pornography or masturbation (with or without sex toys), or spending too much time on your phone or TV could be cheating, today. Spending more time with the boys or girls or even in church may be part of it today. The definition just keeps on expanding.

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